{"id":1942,"date":"2023-11-28T15:58:48","date_gmt":"2023-11-28T15:58:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chapelhillbiblechurch.org\/?p=1942"},"modified":"2023-11-28T16:10:54","modified_gmt":"2023-11-28T16:10:54","slug":"words-on-rings-of-the-coercive-cycle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chapelhillbiblechurch.org\/?p=1942","title":{"rendered":"Words on Rings of The Coercive Cycle"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Self-promotion<\/strong>: Inflating success, BIRGing (basking in reflected glory), name-dropping, humble brag<br \/>\n<strong>Charms<\/strong>: ingratiation, flattery, favors, gifts, over-helping, love-bombing, false promises<br \/>\n<strong>Dismantling<\/strong>: name-calling, humiliation, cutting off support, isolating, shaming, secrecy<br \/>\n<strong>Defenses<\/strong>: denying intent, denying agency, victim-blaming, excuses, justifications, comparisons, DARVO (Deny\/Attack\/Reverse Victim &amp; offender)<br \/>\n<strong>Concessions<\/strong>: partial confessions, pseudo-apologies, exploiting forgiveness<br \/>\n<strong>Demonstrations:<\/strong> Tokenism, optimistic outlook, exploiting survivors<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Self-promotion: Inflating success, BIRGing (basking&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[90],"tags":[20],"class_list":{"0":"post-1942","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-background","7":"tag-spiritual-abuse"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chapelhillbiblechurch.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1942","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chapelhillbiblechurch.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chapelhillbiblechurch.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chapelhillbiblechurch.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chapelhillbiblechurch.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1942"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/chapelhillbiblechurch.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1942\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1949,"href":"https:\/\/chapelhillbiblechurch.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1942\/revisions\/1949"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chapelhillbiblechurch.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1942"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chapelhillbiblechurch.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1942"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chapelhillbiblechurch.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1942"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}